I have never been in one – (officially).
Am I the only one who feels like they are alone by not being in one?
Everywhere I look there are happy couples, people getting engaged, weddings … babies!
Was it something I said?!
In all honesty though, looking back over my teenage life, I don’t think I could have coped being in a relationship but now my heart starts to flutter at the thought of it!
I’m not picky either! People often ask me “what is your ‘type’?” and the truth is – I don’t have one!
For example, I find both of these men VERY appealing but they are, quite frankly opposites!
*Andrew Garfield – Spiderman *Chris Hemsworth – Thor
I do have one condition however, and that is this:
* NO GAMING.
** My No.1 pet peeve is gaming!
*** Ok, that’s a little harsh! It’s alright to play a bit – I even enjoy some car racing periodically – but constant addicts. NO. Just NO.
Sometimes I do fear that I will end up alone … with my cats, of course!
* If I can love a man as much as I do my cats – it’s a done deal!
* Even better, if a man can love ME like I love my cats – they are Gold.
But seriously, that would be great.
On the contrary, relationships can very often be phony. I remember in high school people would say they are an ‘official’ couple and an hour later they are already holding hands, snogging outside the entrance to their next class and constantly on the phone. Now is true love THAT instant?
You also get the people who just want to be in a relationship because that’s ‘the done thing’, but they end up looking as awkward and as stiff as this!
Now I don’t pretend to be an expert on the matter – as I am most definitely not, but I also know how much heartbreak and pain that relationships can bring and my heart goes out to all those who have been or are in a sticky situation with love. Unfortunately, sometimes things just don’t work out but there will always be a reason behind it as nothing happens by accident.
So, what are my top qualities in a guy? Listen up!
1) He loves me and I love him unconditionally
2) He is caring and shows interest in my life
3) We have fun together
4) He is kind and compassionate – not only to me but also to those around him
5) He is a hard worker and always does his best
* I might add that a sculpted figure wouldn’t go a miss but it’s not essential! Besides, with all my body issues I can hardly expect someone else to have a “perfect” body just for my sake!
So yeah, hopefully some day I will be puckering up to the man of my dreams! In a dress similar to this childish one I tried on in Monsoon a few years ago! 😉
Bye for now xxx
The Honest Life 